REAL Talk

Preventing (cyber) gender-based violence and fostering consent among adolescents

Description

REAL Talk is a transnational initiative, co-funded by the European Union aimed at preventing gender-based violence (GBV) and cyber gender-based violence (CGBV) among adolescents aged 11–16.

At a time when young people are forming their identities, relationships, and digital habits, the project intervenes early, before harmful norms and behaviours become entrenched.

REAL Talk proposes a Cross-Cultural Socio-Emotional and Relational Education Model that promotes emotional literacy, consent, healthy relationships, and digital safety, engaging adolescents as active participants while also working with caregivers, educators, and policymakers to create supportive environments for lasting change.

Objective

The project aims to prevent GBV and CGBV by:

  •  increasing the knowledge, capacity of adolescents, and empower them to recognize and act against GBV and CGBV
  •  increasing the awareness of caregivers on harmful effects of gender stereotypes, norms, attitudes and behaviour, especially on GBV and CIPV/CGBV, to foster a supportive environment for their children
  • improving the gender equitable knowledge and attitudes of educators and their capacity to recognize early signs and address instances of GBV and CGBV, adopting an inclusive and cross-cultural approach.
  • influencing policies and systems to embed prevention approaches involving policy makers at local and national level to actively support the integration of cross-cultural relational and emotional education in schools, shaped by the voices of adolescents.

At its core, REAL Talk seeks to interrupt cycles of violence early, before they become normalised behaviours.

Activities

REAL Talk implements a set of interconnected activities across countries:

  • Workshops with adolescents to critically reflect on harmful gender norms, build healthy relationships, consent, and increase digital safety
  • Participatory activities where young people co-create content and messages
  • Training for educators and practitioners to recognise and respond to GBV and CGBV
  • Sessions for caregivers, including the “Cycle of Aware Fatherhood” to equip caregivers with tools to support open, respectful conversations on gender, safety, and wellbeing
  • Consultation sessions bringing together adolescents, caregivers, and education professionals
  • Advocacy activities and policy dialogue at national and European level
  • Dissemination of research and tools through webinars, media, and networks as well as a final project conference.

These activities are based on a cross-cultural socio-emotional and relational education model, adapted to different contexts and needs.

Target Group

ICDI’s role

ICDI leads the communication, dissemination, and advocacy work of the project.

We ensure that REAL Talk reaches a wide audience and that its results are shared in ways that are accessible, relevant, and useful for different stakeholders. This includes developing the communication and dissemination strategy, coordinating outreach across partner countries, and engaging European and international networks.

Building on our experience in projects such as Cybersafe, the Cybersafe MOOC, and E-mpowerYouth, ICDI contributes expertise in digital safety, child participation, and youth engagement. We support partners in integrating participatory and gender-transformative approaches, and in amplifying adolescents’ voices through campaigns, media content, and advocacy.

ICDI also plays a key role in connecting project outcomes to policy and practice, promoting uptake at national and European level and contributing to long-term impact and sustainability.

Expected results

REAL Talk contributes to both individual and systemic change:

  • Adolescents show increased knowledge and confidence to recognise and respond to GBV and CGBV, particularly coercive behaviours in offline and digital relationships.
  • Caregivers improve their understanding of how gender norms influence adolescent behaviour and relationships and build confidence in supporting their children’s digital and emotional wellbeing. Educators will be equipped to identify early signs of GBV/CGBV and how to foster safe, inclusive environments for adolescents, including in leading peer training to deliver the Model.
  • Policymakers integrate adolescent-informed recommendations into policies and programmes
  • Increased awareness and dialogue on gender equality, relationships, and digital safety

In the long term, the project supports the development of safer, more inclusive environments where young people can build respectful and non-violent relationships, both offline and online.

Facts and figures

Partners

IRC Italy (Coordinator)

IRC Poland

Una Casa per l’Uomo (Italy)

University of Tartu (Estonia)

Donors

Funded by the European Union. Views and opinions expressed are however those of the author(s) only and do not necessarily reflect those of the European Union or the Citizens, Equality, Rights and Values Programme (CERV). Neither the European Union nor the granting authority can be held responsible for them.

Project Manager

Ana Rodrigues